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哈佛家训1第一大章的内容！！
一：沉稳 （1）不要随便显露你的情绪。 （2）不要逢人就诉说你的困难和遭遇。 （3）在征询别人的意见之前，自己先思考，但不要先讲。 （4）不要一有机会就唠叨你的不满。 （5）重要的决定尽量有别人商量，最好隔一天再发布。 （6）讲话不要有任何的慌张，走路也是。
求哈弗家训《篱笆上的钉子》原文多谢了~
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. 从前，有个男孩特别容易发脾气。一天，他的父亲给了他一袋钉子，告诉他：“每次你要发脾气的时候呢，就去篱笆那儿，往篱笆上钉一枚钉子。” The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. 第一天，男孩整整在篱笆上钉了37个钉子。在之后的几周时间里，男孩开始学着控制自己的情绪，篱笆上每天新增钉子也渐渐少了下来。终于有一天，男孩不再大发脾气。He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. 他去告诉了父亲，父亲又告诉他：“每回你能控制住自己的脾气的时候，就从篱笆上拔下一枚钉子来。”The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. 一些日子之后，男孩告诉父亲，篱笆上所有的钉子都被拔去了。The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, ’You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. But It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound will still be there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one. Remember that friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us.’父亲拉着儿子的手，来到了篱笆边上，“你做得很棒，我的孩子。”父亲说，“可是你瞧见篱笆上那些洞了吗？篱笆再也不会是原来那个样子了。”“每每你因为大发脾气，说出那些伤害别人的话，如同用小刀去扎一个人，随后又把刀抽出来，所造成的伤害对别人来说，就会像这些篱笆上的洞一样，变成留在别人的心里的一个刀疤。无论你之后说多少次‘抱歉’、‘对不起’，伤口将一直在那里。要知道，身体上的伤口和心灵上的伤口一样都难以恢复。孩子，要记住，朋友是世上最珍贵的宝贝，他们聆听我们的话语、他们对我们敞开心怀、他们带给你无尽欢笑，用最真诚的赞扬给予你前行的力量。”Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND, even if it means sending it back to the person who sent it to you! If it comes back to you, you will then know you have a circle of friends. 请告诉你的朋友们，你有多在乎他们。告诉他们上面这个小故事，当有人告诉你同样的故事的时候，你会知道，你拥有的，是那份直到世界尽头的绵长情谊。
